Post Transplant Update

Laura and David are both doing fine! Their recovery is coming along great. David was released from the hospital on Wednesday afternoon and Laura was released on Friday evening.

The morning after surgery, David manned-up, endured the pain, and walked over to Laura’s room to have breakfast with her! That evening, Laura managed to walk over to his room for dinner. As you can see, she was very grateful for the gift of life!



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Surgery Day!!


Laura has kissed our kids good goodbye. We’re heading off to the hospital.


Family pics – Only David would show up for surgery in a suit and tie!

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David was called back to get labs drawn to make sure everything is good to go.

Still don’t know what I signed up for.




David has been taken back to the OR.  One last hug before he changes her life forever.





Laura was taken back to get prepped for surgery. She made a call to the kids to let them know everything was going to be okay.

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Nurse came out and said David was doing fine and the kidney was out. They should be taking Laura back for surgery within the next 30 minutes. She brought a few pics of Laura’s new kidney. Thank you David!!






Laura is getting wheeled away. Her surgery should be about 3-4 hours long. She should be out of surgery by about 2:30-3:00pm.



David is out of surgery and he is doing well. He’s going to the recovery room for a couple of hours. We are not allowed to see him until they take him out of recovery and put him upstairs.


David is getting taken upstairs. He and Laura will both be on the 10th floor, but in separate rooms.


Nurse came out and said the kidney  is in place.  They are closing her up now. They said the doc should come and talk to me in about 20-30 minutes.


Doc came out and said everything went well and everything looks good. He said they’ve done an ultrasound of the kidney and it has really good blood flow. They will repeat the ultrasound in the morning to make sure the blood flow is still good. She is being taken to the recovery room for a couple of hours and I’ll be able to see her around 4:30-5:00pm when she gets upstairs to the 10th floor.


I got to spend some time with David. He’s in pain, but doing quite well. Still has his sense of humor; although laughing really isn’t a good idea for him right now. Sorry I made you laugh David and thank you again for such a precious gift!


Laura is upstairs on the tenth floor now. I didn’t get to see her very long because they are getting her situated in her room. I’ll be able to go in  and see her after they get her settled. She looked like she was in quite a bit of pain, but I’m glad everything is going well.

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Surgery Schedule

Tomorrow is the big day! We have to wake up around 4:30am because we have to be at the hospital by 5:30am. We should be asleep already, but we’ve got too many “butterflies in the stomach”.

Laura doesn’t have to be there until 9:00am, but we’re going to be there with David at 5:30am. His surgery is scheduled to start around 7:00am and should last 4-5 hours. Laura’s surgery will start 30 minutes before David’s is over and should last 3-4 hours. We’re hoping everyone will be in a recovery room by around 3pm.

If all goes well, David is expected to be released from the hospital on Wednesday and Laura will be there until Friday or Saturday.

Many of you have asked me to keep you updated tomorrow so I’ll try to post often. We’d like to once again thank everyone who has helped us get here. We are VERY grateful for everything. Please continue to keep us in your prayers.

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Transplant date set

Short Version

Laura’s brother and sister were tested to see if they were a possible match to be a kidney donor. Laura’s sister, Esme, was a 4 out of 6 match, which is good but since it’s not an exact match, it would require Laura to be on more anti-rejection drugs. However, her brother, David, was a perfect 6 out of 6 match.  Surgery is scheduled for 11/24/14. That’s the Monday right before Thanksgiving.  His recovery is expected to take 2-3 weeks and hers is going to be 6-8 weeks. Please keep us in your prayers.

If you’re interested in reading all the details, you can read the long version below.

Long Version

I haven’t posted anything in the last 11 weeks because it’s been one heck of a ride. We really didn’t have any good news to report so I didn’t even feel like writing anything. Soon after starting dialysis on August 21st, Laura had 4 visits to the ER in 3 weeks. She had two more ER visits in October. However, three things happened in the last 11 weeks that made the transplant possible so fast.

First, Laura’s sister, Esme, and younger brother, David, were tested to see if they were a match for a possible kidney donor. Her sister was tested first and she was a 4 out of 6 match, which is pretty good. They could actually do the transplant with her as a donor, but it means you have to take more anti-rejection medication in the long run. Then they tested her brother and he was a perfect 6 out of 6 match. You can’t get any better than that!

The second thing that happened was that about 9 weeks ago, in hopes that they could get rid of the virus, she started an IVIG (intravenous immunoglobulin) treatment.

Laura was given IVIG last year and it helped knock down the virus levels. However, she never got the treatment like it was recommended. You are supposed to be given two “loading” doses in the first week and then booster doses every three weeks. For Laura, that meant two 80 gram doses followed by 30 gram doses every three weeks. Laura only received 1 and a half of the loading doses and none of the booster doses at the time. This was because our insurance denied the doctor’s request to use it so and refused to pay for it. They said it was “experimental” for her diagnosis. I believe they just didn’t want to pay up since it costs $150 per gram. In comparison, gold is only about $36 a gram. Our current insurance did approve the IVIG and now that she’s been on IVIG for 9 weeks, the virus levels are undetectable.

Finally, Laura’s health had improved significantly. Her severe anemia was much better and her albumin levels had come up. All of her other blood results showed that everything was at a level were it was considered safe to proceed with a transplant.

When the transplant doctors learned that David was a perfect match, Laura showed no signs of the virus, and her health had improved, they wanted to perform the transplant as soon as possible. We were first told that we’d have the surgery Dec 1st or Dec 8th depending on which date was available. However, both dates ended up being already taken so that’s when they asked us if November 24th would be okay.

Honestly, there was a flood of emotions. We were excited, shocked, happy, concerned, and everything else all at once. We were thinking it would be June or July at the earliest.

We’ve come a long way. Last year on November 24th, we were getting on a plane to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN and this year on November 24th, she will be getting a new kidney thanks to her brother, David. I’m saddened that we were unable to save her kidneys, but at the same time, I’m grateful that she gets a second chance at a somewhat normal life. Yes, she will need to take anti-rejection medication the rest of her life. Yes, there is still a 30% chance that the disease could come back and infect the new kidney. However, we just need to have faith and pray that everything will work out fine.

The next few weeks will be pretty tough. Laura’s recovery will take 6-8 weeks and David’s will be about 2-3 weeks. The hardest part on Laura is that she’s been told to limit the time she spends with our kids for the first 2 weeks. Since she will be on very high doses of immunosuppressants, any little germ from a cough or a sneeze, could cause major problems. I guess she’ll need to FaceTime with them!

From the bottom of our hearts, we’d like to thank everyone who has made this possible for us. Thank you for all of your prayers and support. There have been many days where we just wanted to throw in the towel but someone was always there to make sure we kept moving forward.


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